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        > and honestly..In my experience, even as a safe-sex activist, as men who are horny, we want to have sex right away-

Then you're not a safe sex advocate as you thought you were. http://www.google.com/search?q=all+hat+and+no+cattle All hat and no cattle that's called. Say one thing and do another is that train of thought.


        > I get that that might be the problem, but there's a very small chance that either party is going to get tested before giving or receiving a casual blowjob.

Right there... casual. Still not a safe sex advocate.


        > How about "Educate yourself before hooking up.

Hooking up... right there. More unsafe sex.


        > Discuss status and your interests in sex BEFORE having sex?"

Yeah, forget the testing before sex